100 Things About Rae
January 31st, 2007 by Rae
1. I was born in 1980…
2. …In Ontario, Canada
3. I have a sister and three brothers
4. My parents are still married
5. I am 5’11’’
6. I pursue God everyday as He pursues me
7. I believe very much in Spiritual Things and in Truth
8. I believe that it’s true that God died to set people free and that death was broken with His coming back to life
9. I love black tea with crazy passion especially PG Tips and Typhoo and I found a really good Irish Breakfast Tea at Trader Joe’s
10. I like my tea really strong with lots of cream and sugar. Hot beverages are pretty much useless to me if you can’t add cream and sugar to them. (Updated to add: I have found that tea caffeine is kind of strong for me and now I drink espresso- and am not as jumpy. Go figure.)
11. I like my eggs poached
12. And I love wearing red skate shoes. I’ve almost always had a pair of red shoes since I was fifteen- except for right now, but my shoes are sewn with red thread
13. Red is actually my very favorite color
14. My mother, my daughter, and I all have the same middle name– Joy
15. I’m a painter
16. I like oils best
17. I used to do performance painting but now I’m lucky if I do any at all. I’m planning on starting to paint again though, and I want to do more live portraits
18. I’m feeling much more positive about building a career in art   WHAAA? Did I actually write that?
19. I’ve lived away from Canada for six seven years and I really miss it
20. I only have half a thyroid
21. I’ve been in eight nine car accidents
22. When I was young I stole compulsively until I was arrested when I was fourteen and then I never stole again, although I do like bank robbery movies
23. I met my husband in San Francisco when I was eighteen
24. And he was twenty-five
25. I’ve never kissed anyone else
26. My husband is African-American, and I’m European-American (Canadian)
27. He is my biggest hero and my best friend and we are very happy
28. I had three kids in four years
29. And now I feel like I’m done I’m pregnant again
30. I live in a one room cabin with my whole family I live in a beautiful two bedroom cabin with my family  I live in an old craftsman style house in Sacramento
31. It’s driving me crazy but I’m trying to make the best of it I made the best of it and I’m glad for the experience
32. I’ve had many goldfish who were all named Frankie
33. Our current goldfish belongs to my son but I still named him Frankie I need to get another goldfish
34. I’m allergic to cats
35. I had one cat I loved when I was a kid
36. I was an awkward child with skinny legs and big teeth
37. I’ve suffered from post-partum depression
38. And had many panic attacks throughout it
39. I write because it makes me love life and because I can see life better when I write about it
40. My husband calls me the Pillow Nazi because I’m always controlling about the pillows
41. Same with the lights and whether they’re on or off
42. But I’m mellow about most other things
43. I lived in India for a while and rode on camels and elephants
44. I slept under the stars in an Indian desert and rode four days on an Indian ship to get to the Andaman Islands. The ship broke down in the ocean and we ran out of water because they had to use it to cool the engines
45. I will go back to India soon, I hope, with my family
46. I’ve also spent time in Thailand and Nepal
47. I’m writing a novel, and my first draft is half-finished
48. I’ve always wanted to write a book
49. I go to bookstores to ogle the new books and their covers, I love the way they look, the way they feel, the way they smell…
50. I love to read almost too much
51. I’m an ISFP
52. I’ve always felt that sometimes people can’t see God because they need to see Him in a different way than they’re used to
53. I speak with a Canadian accent that my superstar husband sometimes mocks me about
54. I can be slightly melodramatic at times
55. I think that Vanilla Heath Bar Crunch Ice Cream is the best in the world, and Crème Brulee is my favorite dessert.
56. I would eat it every day if it wouldn’t keep me from getting back into my pre-pregnancy clothes
57. My superstar husband and I direct a non-profit organization
58. We also are working on starting up a wedding photography business  We do wedding photography but what we really want to do is photography for advocacy
59. I write poems
60. I’m not very good at organizing things, which is why I am awed by Elena
61. I really really love my friends but sometimes have a hard time showing it
62. I’m trying to do better- I’d love to be better about sending cards and letters and packages in the mai;
63. I love documentaries and one day I’d like to make one
64. I’m a wimp about movies and I’ve walked out of many that were too scary or disturbing for me
65. I like happy endings, or at least endings with hope
66. I went to eight different schools growing up
67. And lived in 12 different houses
68. I always want everyone to be happy- I fear disappointing people
69. I hate being called Rache, but I like being called Rae or RaeRae
70. I love structure and routine, but I’m very flexible, especially about big things in life
71. However, my biggest pet peeve is when I’m expecting something that doesn’t work out
72. I love mornings, although they are a bit different now that I have kids. I still leap out of bed with the thought of having a cup of tea, though an Americano, though
73. I need a lot of light to thrive, and get depressed in the winter, especially here in our community. We spend a lot of time outdoors, and it feels like we are always walking around in the dark
74. I have good veins, nurses always tell me so
75. I’m very competitive, and I have to be careful to remind myself that games are for fun
76. I love to cook and I usually like what I make, but I haven’t had a kitchen I feel comfortable in for a long time and now I have my very own kitchen!
77. My mom is an amazing cook and it seems magic to me, how she can always figure out what to make, every night
78. I look a lot like my sister
79. We think a lot alike, too
80. I have a husband who speaks Korean and German fairly fluently
81. I’ve had and lost contact with an amazing amount of friends in my life
82. I want to be better at long distance friendships
83. I’ve had my dreadlocks since September of 2002
84. I can’t stand shopping and can only handle a little at a time, except for grocery shopping, which I don’t mind
85. I plan to start sewing some of my own clothes, since I feel like I can never find what I’m looking for
86. I was addicted to smoking for years, but I’ve managed to quit and I feel a lot healthier now
87. I helped manage a deli when I was fourteen
88. I work in administration now
89. I love music, although I’m not a musician
90. My superstar husband is an amazing musician
91. He’s pretty much good at everything he does, hence the nickname
92. Plus I figure I can’t gripe about him in a bad moment if I call him that
93. I’ve been much healthier inside since I started blogging
94. I want to adopt kids, which is one of the reasons that I want to stop bearing them will have to wait for a couple more years
95. I feel that looking after oppressed kids will be a bigger part of my life one day
96. I have no talent for small talk
97. In the past people have mistaken me for a snob, but really I’m just shy and a pretty big introvert
98. However, knowing that people can’t tell the difference, I’m making more of an effort to make acquaintance with others
99. I once lived in a church on the beach
100. I’m happiest with only a few things






I love the way you write, you are a real talent. Honestly, I’m very critical about this, and I’d read any book you ever wrote…I see another Pulizer in the family…
i found you through the i am at owlhaven’s and it is great! frankie is a good choice of names.. why did you live in a church on the beach?? and do you like your dreads?? i also lived in a church, but it was an old country church that my husband and i rescued. we have since sold it to our close friends. we have 5 children 7 and younger, so watch out! but we as well have wanted to adopt, which lead me to owlhaven initially. i paint, and dream of painting well, and perfer oils. (when there is any spare moments!!) wish i could have traveled, but hopefully in one of our future adventures! many blessings to you and your family!
I love all your comments - except how many times we moved you guys - sorry! I love the how many accidents you were in comment - I laughed at that. I also like how you say you’re a bit melodramatic - slight under-exaggeration - although I have noticed less through the years. You come by it honestly I think.
Your pillow Nazi comment was funny also, although I’m a cover Nazi as I always steal all the covers right off my husband’s back, so to speak - he wakes up very cold.
I adore music but I’m not a very good musician either, but you’re so good at most things, what’s a few that you aren’t.
Your game comment made me laugh as I almost frothe at the mouth sometimes while playing games….
Most of all I love the way you write ….so keep it coming! What kind of book are you writing?
Shouldn’t #53 say “aboot”?
Love the list…and your site. Such a beautiful family! I can feel your beautiful soul. Even through the computer screen.
I am having fun today. Another Sunday of playing hooky and enjoying the sun and your site. It was decided that due to the hormones circulating around me it would be best for me to avoid people. For them and me! Ahhh, an understanding family is more precious than jewels. I am a ENFJ although I have also scored as a INFJ,and once as a ENFP but I was little manic that day! My other half is a ESFP, I think… We aren’t supposed to be the best blend, but we have been blending for years just fine, thank you very much!
what does ISFP mean?
I like #97. I do not think you are a snob but that is one of my first memories of getting to know you. Walking down the road in front of the Germann’s house on Bed and Bread and you telling me you are not a snob just shy. I just thought you were a pretty cool, amazing person and was happy to have you as a friend. Been thinking about you.
Hi, I really like your blog! Especially your video of your cute little son. I also like your 100 things about yourself. I’ll have to try that on my blog. I am an ENFP. Nice meeting you through domesticirritation.com.
didn’t YOU and your superstar husband play some music together at our wedding. i guess it is the only time i have heard you play an instrument, but it was very nice.
oh and i feel the same about the small talk thing. i have been having to train myself to small talk, just to get to know people more. was that an oxymoron?
I just left on comment on your most recent post then read your 100 things. I love how you put this together. I don’t have any thyroid left : )
you really disclose alot in this list. i am impressed. disclosure can be scary. # 68 resonates in me too, i am not sure this is always a good thing.
Hey Rachel! I have been writing you on facebook, but your mom tells me you have been busy because you are selling your place and might be coming up to the ‘wack soon. I would REALLY love to see you and catch up with you, so much has happened since highschool. Okay, I’ll stop bugging you now, but I think you are a beautiful writer and there are alot of things we have in common (from reading the above comments about yourself!). I have a third kid on the way and have always wanted to adopt as well. My husband is also musical and plays three instruments. He is modest, but I think he is great. Okay, well I look forward to hearing from you when you are less busy and hopefully catching up in person someday. Take care and I hope the move won’t be too stressful and goes smoothly for you! Bye! luv, Taegen
Amazing writer you are. Wow, so beautiful, so fresh, so real. Thank you for sharing the you we love. C
i met chinua at lj urban just before you all left. (i am a funny fake-intern/office squatter there.) i mentioned permaculture and that i’m interested in rooftop agriculture and he said you were into such things too. and then i chanced upon your blog and i love it so much. i’m sad that we didn’t get to meet before your adventure! and i hope you don’t mind if i float around this amazing journal of yours because i’m excited about what you’re up to and reading your writing makes me want to write.
Sara at Walk Slowly Live Wildly (a.k.a. Happy Foody) recommended your blog. I LOVE your writing voice. Beautiful posts. Hilarious list. Thank you for sharing your life in the blog world!
I just found you and I’m excited to read about your adventures.
Myself- we’re in Guam and traveling a lot before settling down in a few years back INCONUS. Years from now we’ll look back and say-wow that was wild. We lived on a tropical island!
For now I practice medicine and write and raise my three kids….but I digress. I’m writing to say I can’t add you to a reader. I just updated the new firefox-drat!-and can’t seem to figure out the subscribe button! Do you have one???
Just found your blog and am happy to be reading here!
I am American and live with my Dutch husband in Sydney. We have two kiddies, we adopted our first, and I bore our second.
I’m really into reading other people’s stories of living abroad, balancing cultures, raising children with multiple heritages, languages, and cultures to combine, and the like. And oh, I am cultivating joy as well.